Whenever intimate or romantic gestures are mentioned, a specific image comes to mind. 

Most people believe that men should make intimate gestures while women should be on the receiving end. 

That’s not the right way of thinking.

Everyone, both men and women, deserves and should receive intimate gestures from their loved ones. 

Let’s get back to the topic of discussion. 

Husbands deserve intimate gestures just as much as wives do. 

There are a million and one intimate gestures that have been in use for a long time that you can use to make your husband feel special and make him smile. 

However, certain gestures appear to be tailored to the recipients. 

These are more distinctive than the others, and they will make your husband blush and smile from ear to ear whenever he remembers you did them for him. 

Not only will he appreciate the thoughtfulness behind such gestures, but he will also have no doubts about your feelings for him. 

However, trust men to be experts at concealing their emotions from you. 

When you make such gestures, he may appear unimpressed. 

All you may get from him are smiles and ‘thank yous’ at the point of delivery. 

But deep down, he’ll appreciate them and wish you could do them on a regular basis for him.

How will you know and perform those specific intimate gestures for him now that he isn’t open about his preferences?

Join me as I discuss intimate gestures that husbands secretly love. 

It appears to be a fascinating read. 

12 Intimate Gestures Husbands Secretly Love 

1. Offer him breakfast in bed

Being served breakfast in bed may appear too common, but believe me when I say that it is one of the intimate gestures that husbands secretly enjoy. Being served breakfast in bed might seem too common, but believe me when I say that it’s one of the intimate gestures husbands secretly love. 

No one has ever refused to be pampered with a delicious breakfast served first thing in the morning while still in bed. 

Women have taken advantage of this gesture to an excessive degree. 

Now is the time to make your man feel special, just as you have. 

Treating him to breakfast in bed is a wonderful way to begin his day with love and affection. 

2. Give him compliments

Compliments are not intended to be given or received by a specific gender. Compliments are not meant to be given or received by any gender in particular. 

Everyone deserves to be complimented on a regular basis, particularly by their loved ones. 

Being complimented on a regular basis is an intimate gesture that husbands secretly enjoy. 

They enjoy it when their wives compliment them and talk about specific qualities they possess. 

It helps them feel seen and loved. 

Complimenting your husband on his positive qualities can boost his self-esteem.  

3. Spend the day doing the things he loves with him

A man loves it when his wife spends the entire day with him doing things he enjoys. 

Assume he has a few days off work or it is the weekend. 

The wife can customize an entire day’s schedule for her husband. 

She can accomplish this by scheduling some of his favorite activities for the day. 

For example, he enjoys swimming, visiting the zoo, bowling, golfing, and reading books. 

She can arrange for them to spend the entire day at a recreational facility that includes swimming pools, bowling alleys, a zoo, and other attractions. 

They can begin the day by visiting a good bookstore or library and either getting him some books or letting him read one. 

The fact that she does not actively participate in these activities will make it even more special for him. 

So her planning the day and ensuring that he sees it through will make him feel loved and valued. 

4. Send him romantic messages randomly

Men enjoy and appreciate receiving romantic messages from the women they care about. 

It does not need to be a special occasion. 

Simply pick up your phone, compose a romantic message for your husband, and press the send button. 

Make it a random reminder of your love, dedication, commitment, and affection for him. 

Trust me, he’ll appreciate receiving such random messages from you. 

5. Random massages to help him relax 

Husbands enjoy receiving random massages from their wives. One of the intimate gestures husbands secretly love is getting random massages from their wives. 

For example, he is seated at his home workstation, exhausted and unable to complete any additional tasks. 

Massaging his scalp gently and slowly will undoubtedly help him relax. 

Foot rubs, shoulder, and back massages are also options to help him relax and relieve stress. 

Don’t forget to include some essential oils for maximum effectiveness. 

6. Write down the reasons why you love him

I’ve never seen a man who doesn’t enjoy it when his wife writes letters explaining why she loves him. 

It could be a handwritten list of 40 reasons why she adores him. 

She can frame it and present it to him on his 40th birthday. 

She can also print out her various reasons on cute little pieces of paper and leave them for him to see, one for each day. 

Alternatively, she can send individual text messages to his phone daily. 

Not only will they remind him of how much she loves him, but he will be so moved by the gesture that he will eagerly await the next reason. 

But he might not tell her how much it affects him because he is a hard man. 

7. Get him some nice fashion pieces

Put a smile on your man’s face by buying him beautiful items that he will look good in. Put a smile on the face of your man by buying him beautiful things that he’ll look good in. 

I’m referring to nice fashion pieces like shirts, shoes, belts, sunglasses, shorts, pants, wristwatches, and so on. 

You know your husband’s taste and style. 

Give him something that highlights his best features and boosts his confidence. 

It needs to be something that makes him feel attractive. 

This will show him that, in addition to loving him, you care about his overall health and appearance. 

8. Hide love notes around the house and let him find them

Another way to reach your man, even if he doesn’t express it, is to hide love notes around the house and let him find them. Another way to reach your man, even though he may not show it, is to hide love notes around the house and let him find them. 

It can’t be the “step-by-step find me” note. 

A sticky love note can be placed on the refrigerator door, the wardrobe door, inside his laptop, or the bedside drawer on his side of the bed. 

It will have him grinning from ear to ear for the rest of the day. 

9. Set up a romantic date night

Another intimate gesture a wife can make for her husband is to plan a romantic date night. 

It is not necessary for the husband to plan these types of outings on a regular basis.

The wife can do it for a change, while her husband relaxes and enjoys himself. 

He’ll love it, to be honest, but he’ll probably not show it. 

She can arrange a romantic date night at home, setting the mood with scented candles and soft music. 

Alternatively, she can host them outside at a restaurant or the movies. 

10. Assist him in recharging after an exhausting day

I’m assuming you and your husband communicate via phone calls or texts throughout the day, as most couples do. I’m assuming that you and your husband keep in touch via phone calls or texts throughout the day, as normal couples do. 

So you’ll know when he’s had a long day and all he wants to do is relax when he gets home. 

You can help him by creating a cozy and comfortable corner of the house. 

Dim the lights, add pillows and blankets, make a mug of soothing tea, and, if he prefers, play relaxing music to help him sleep better. 

Sometimes you don’t have to do too much. 

Just help him get the rest and recharge he needs, and he’ll be grateful. 

11. Prepare his favorite snacks and drinks while watching his favorite game

If you ask most married men what is better than hanging out to watch their favorite games, they will tell you that having a comfortable environment to do so at home. 

Surprise your husband by preparing his favorite snacks and drinks for him to enjoy while watching his favorite game at home. 

Create a comfortable spot for him to watch the game right inside the house. 

If you want to blow his mind, join him in watching. 

Trust me, he will be overjoyed and grateful. 

12. Surprise him with a staycation. 

Whether you’re on a tight budget or just want to try something new, you don’t always have to pack your bags and travel somewhere else to relax and unwind. 

Surprise your husband by transforming your home into a romantic retreat for a staycation. 

Roll out the feathery blankets, light the scented candles, and let romantic music fill the air. 

You can choose to cook or order some delicious meals to match the mood.

The cool and romantic ambiance will make you and your partner feel like you’re on vacation, even if you didn’t bring a pen.