What makes a woman attractive?

Being attractive goes beyond good looks, even though it could start from there, because there are habits that make you look beautiful.

Attractiveness is more about what is inside you, what you think of yourself and others, and how you perceive things. Attractiveness has more to do with what is inside of you, what you think of yourself and others, and your perception of things.

Perhaps one of my lecturers’ most memorable statements was, “Your personality is more important than your capacity.”

An experienced industrial and organizational psychologist, who has been a member of countless interview panels, explained that during interviews, an individual’s personality makes up 60% of what an employer looks for and that high grades do not matter as much. Employers care more about who you really are.

There are certain attitudes and behaviors that endear you to others, as well as a set of characteristics that make you attractive.

12 Qualities of Attractive Women

1. Authenticity

Integrity is simply the ability to be honest, keep your word, and follow through on your promises. 

Honesty makes you appealing because people feel safe around you.

Even dishonest people will avoid dealing with dishonest people like themselves.

People will want to be around you if they know they can trust your opinions because you express them honestly, if they know their secrets are safe with you, and if they know you will never stab them in the back.

When I was in nursing school, I avoided a potential friend because she gossiped about others to me and lied frequently.

Before I knew it, I was also exaggerating.

I had to end our budding friendship because I knew I couldn’t trust her.

One day, she would tell others about me.

You cannot be insincere and expect to be attractive to others.

Remember that attractiveness goes beyond appearance.

I must warn you, however, that not everyone will find your integrity appealing.

Some people may find you intimidating.

Some will think you are doing too much.

That’s okay because those are not the kind of people you want to be around anyway.

2. Competence

Women who excel at what they do are extremely attractive!

There’s something special about a woman who knows her stuff and believes in her abilities.

This does not imply that you have to be perfect or never make mistakes.

It indicates that you are constantly striving to improve yourself and do your best.

People are drawn to competent people because they believe they are trustworthy and capable.

Beauty without competence will not pay you well.

While beauty can attract people (clients, employers, customers, suitors, and fans), competence will persuade them that they made the right decision in hiring you.

Why do we admire women like Oprah Winfrey, Beyoncé, Joyce Meyer, Kerry Washington, Tamera Mowry, and Serena Williams?

Because these women are freaking amazing at what they do!

While having potential is beneficial, you must hone your skills until you become too valuable to be overlooked.

Make sure you do whatever you do well, even if it’s just janitorial work.

Aim to know every little detail about what you do.

Amateurism is not attractive.

You don’t have to be the world’s definition of beautiful. As a matter of fact, you don’t need to be the world’s definition of beautiful.

If you are good at what you do, you will be irresistible to the world.

The most beautiful isn’t always the most appealing.

Want to be so good at what you do?

I recommend Cal Newport’s best-selling books, Deep Work and So Good They Can’t Ignore You.

They will blow your mind.

 3. Humility

Humility makes you attractive and lovable.

Nobody wants to be around conceited people who believe they are better than others. No one loves to hang around conceited people who think they are better than others.

Their exaggerated sense of importance is repulsive, regardless of how popular or accomplished they are.

Humility is not thinking lowly of oneself; it is not believing that you are more important than others or that you deserve preferential treatment for any reason.

Humility is the willingness to relate to others and treat them with the respect they deserve, regardless of age or socioeconomic status.

Have you noticed that people admire celebrities and bosses who are humble and approachable?

They feel valued and appreciated by them.

Humility also makes you willing to learn from others.

You are not afraid to admit when you don’t understand something or make a mistake.

This openness and willingness to learn allows you to grow as a person and earns the respect of those around you.

So, if you want to be attractive in this world, practice humility.

Do not let your accomplishments or fame get to your head.

Instead, see it as an opportunity to help and encourage others.

4. Ability to be creative

Creativity is the ability to think outside the box and generate innovative ideas.

It is the ability to try new things, come up with novel ideas, and experiment with them.

Creativity, the mother of adventure and spontaneity, attracts people because they will not be bored. 

Learn to be innovative in your life, appearance, business, talents, and environment.

Use your imagination.

Avoid repeating the same actions.

Try doing things differently.

Creativity makes you unpredictable, which makes you a fun person because people don’t always know what you’re up to.

Even in romantic relationships, men prefer women who are creative and spontaneous.

It’s okay to have a style, but add depth and spice to it.

Do you aspire to be creative?

1. Have an open mind!

You must be willing to explore different perspectives, ideas, and solutions.

This means being receptive to feedback and not being afraid to fail.

2. curious

Curiosity fuels our desire to learn and discover, which leads to new ideas and innovations. 

If you want to be truly creative, you can’t stick to your old habits. You can’t be set in your ways if you want to be truly creative.

No, Ma’am.

Step outside your comfort zone and try new things, even if they appear daunting at first.

Challenge yourself to think outside the box and devise novel solutions to problems or tasks.

3. Embrace mistakes and see them as opportunities for growth and learning

Don’t be afraid to take risks and experiment.

This is where true creativity flourishes. Really, this is where true creativity thrives.

P.S: Creativity is not limited to traditional forms such as art or music.

Before you think you have no business being creative, think again. 

Creativity can be expressed through problem-solving, communication, or even simple tasks like cooking or organizing. 

In fact, creativity can be a useful tool in marriage, relationships, and parenting, allowing you to discover new and innovative ways to strengthen your bonds and connect with your loved ones. 

 5. Smiling

Smiling makes you look more beautiful, friendly, and approachable.

It makes others feel at ease around you. It makes people feel at ease with you.

Nobody wants to be around someone whose face is creased into a frown.

Frowning makes you appear disinterested in others and your surroundings.

Your facial expression is the first impression people have of you, even if you are genuinely nice.

If your expression scares people away, they will pass up the opportunity to get closer to you.

If you went to an organization and were faced with two receptionists, one smiling and one frowning, which one would you approach?

You’re more likely to approach the smiling person.

That’s the power of facial expressions.

It can cause people to fall in love with you.

6.  Good sense of humor

Anyone with the ability to make others laugh is attractive.

Laughter symbolizes happiness and makes us feel good.

When you have a good sense of humor, such as smiling, people feel at ease around you because you appear friendly and relaxed.

Also, being humorous attracts people because they know they don’t have to overthink before speaking with you.

People who lack a sense of humor are more likely to take offense because they cannot see the humor in situations.

A good sense of humor does not require being a comedian.

You only need to be creative and optimistic.

Being negative causes you to see the bad in every conversation and situation.

To improve your sense of humor, read books, connect with like-minded individuals, and maintain a positive outlook.

Even in romantic relationships, those with a good sense of humor are more likely to find love.

According to New York Times bestselling author Sherry Argov’s book, “Why Men Marry Bitches,” men prefer to marry interesting women rather than nice ones.

So, also, a lady is more likely to fall in love with a man who makes her laugh.

7. Authenticity and Genuineness

We live in a world where everyone wants to impress others, even if it means acting like someone they are not.

A woman who doesn’t try to be someone she isn’t is irresistible.

An attractive woman is true to herself, including her likes and dislikes.

She lives life according to her own terms.

People adore real women, even if they are not real themselves, because being genuine makes you relatable.

When you are true to yourself, you encourage others to do the same.

8. Intelligence

Intelligence makes a lady extremely attractive and seductive.

The capacity to engage in intelligent talks with people while remaining open-minded enough to learn from them is a highly desirable characteristic.

An attractive lady is insatiably curious and dedicated to widening her horizons via personal development and lifelong study.

Many people claim to be sapiosexual, which means they are both mentally and sexually attracted to bright people.

While curves are desirable, it is also crucial to be mentally stimulating.

Your appearance may grab people’s attention to you, but knowledge keeps them interested in you.

When you are educated, people can’t get enough of you, even in romantic situations.

9. Passion

A passionate woman is quite beautiful.

Women who have a burning desire for a certain cause, who know what they’re living for, who grasp the importance of their contribution in life, who want things to be done better, and who have something that gets them excited to start the day are regarded to be beautiful.

What is your passion?

What are you enthusiastic about?

What are you known for?

Passion is a tremendous energy that allows a woman to stand out and shine.

It is more than just being interested in something; it is having a strong desire and excitement for it.

Passion permeates everything you do, from your career to your relationships.

Passion not only attracts others, but it also gives your life meaning and purpose.

It provides you with a sense of purpose and drives you to work hard to achieve your objectives.

I can identify to this because I am a passionate woman.

10. Compassion

Passion not only attracts others, but it also gives your life meaning and purpose.

It provides you with a sense of purpose and drives you to work hard to achieve your objectives.

I can identify to this because I am a passionate woman.

11. Confidence

Attractive ladies have confidence in themselves.

This does not imply that they are perfect or have a perfect existence.

They love and believe in themselves, despite their shortcomings.

Attractive ladies think for themselves.

They don’t seem needy or clingy.

They do not compare themselves to other women.

Their confidence is not derived from putting other women down.

Joyce Meyer’s The Confident Woman is the most motivating book about confidence I’ve read thus far.

I’ve inserted the Confidence Code.

We Should All Be Millionaires!

We live in a tough world, and as a woman, you can’t survive without confidence. 

12. Happiness

A contented woman is irresistible.

Do you know why?

Happiness is contagious.

Moods are contagious, thus being cheerful is contagious.

Nobody likes to be around someone who is usually moody.

Personally, I enjoy being around happy people because they make me feel better.

Happiness increases your attractiveness to others.